Tips
- Choose friends wisely. Choose friends that have their own opinions, but are willing to support you.
- Being tough isn't about looking mean and having bulging biceps, it's about being able to take whatever comes. Be capable and confident. A tough girl doesn't cry over a broken nail or when insulted by someone. Cultivate an inner calm that can't be unsettled by other people.
- Most importantly, remember that you are tough, not mean. Bullying people doesn't show your strength at all. It only shows how weak you are on the inside. And if any one starts bullying you, walk away! It will prove you are stronger than the people bullying you.
- Remember that confidence is important. You can walk around acting tough all day long, but if you are easily upset, your toughness will be perceived as a façade. Work hard, if you are soft, to at least pretend to have overcome that. Go away a minute, then say, "Hey, if you think something you do or say will upset me, you're wrong. Understand me?" It will clarify them and boost your self-confidence.
- Just because you're tough, doesn't mean you have to trash all your girly hobbies. If you like to sing, then sing. If you love to make-up, then don't quit!
- It's not a good idea to keep all emotions inside. If anything, let them out in private, maybe in a journal or something.
- Don't walk around looking angry, this will make you appear unapproachable and unfriendly. Just look neutral. Finding neutral is a key thing. If you are happy, then put a smile on that face of yours.
